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The myth of size is a dangerous one. Many good men have become fixated on this, to the point where there are websites dedicated to teaching men how to increase their length and/or girth through bizarre, sometimes frightening techniques and exercises. It’s the male equivalent of women and breast size.
So is bigger really better?
In short, no. Just the same as the girl with the DD-sized boobs isn’t necessarily better in bed, being more well-hung doesn’t make one man superior to another. Of course, us girls know this... but the men in our life often need a bit more persuasion. What happens when you have an insecure man on your hands, or worse – one who’s in denial about his size?
Never fear, our guide to pampering that fragile male ego holds the key to a sizzling sex life for you and your partner. We’ll have you swinging off the ceiling with the best of them!
We at nzgirl advocate safe sex, and we hear a rumour going round that there are occasional incidences of condom ‘slippage’. Now girls, when the condom slips, it’s because it’s too big. To tackle this delicate issue with your man, there’s a simple but roundabout solution. It’s a bit sneaky, but it works well – offer to be the one who buys the condoms. Instead of leaving them in their boxes, put them in a pretty bowl next to your bed, or just slip a few loose ones into your purse if spending the night at his. Just think about it, how many boys do you know that actually stop to look at the packaging of condoms before they put it on? And if they do, they’re obviously beyond your help (or ours), but do write in, we’d love to hear your story! Durex has the ideal product called ‘Durex Close Fit’ so you can achieve that snugger fit.
Reassure them, but don’t beat them over the head with it. Don’t go round chanting ‘I still love you even if you have a small pee-pee’. This is a delicate subject, so the best way to broach it is in metaphorical terms or better, don’t tell them, show them! Just be enthusiastic and a few small white lies won’t hurt either...
Be more assertive in bed. Suggest adventurous positions you can try that will make you both feel good, regardless of how big or small he is. Let him know when he’s doing something right. Most guys like vocal girls and chances are, your boy’s one of them (but there’s no need to keep the neighbours awake, know your voice limit).
Be sure that the timing’s right to talk about this delicate subject. The wrong time includes during foreplay, just before sex, just after sex, when his mates are round or when the footy’s on TV. You don’t want him to feel inadequate. Unless he actually comes right out and makes a comment you can respond to such as: ‘honey, do you think I’m too small?’, you are best to keep your mouth shut!
Remember, it’s not the size of the boat...but the motion of the ocean that sets us off!!
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The myth of size is a dangerous one. Many good men have become fixated on this, to the point where there are websites dedicated to teaching men how to increase their length and/or girth through bizarre, sometimes frightening techniques and exercises. It’s the male equivalent of women and breast size. 
We at nzgirl advocate safe sex, and we hear a rumour going round that there are occasional incidences of condom ‘slippage’. Now girls, when the condom slips, it’s because it’s too big. To tackle this delicate issue with your man, there’s a simple but roundabout solution. It’s a bit sneaky, but it works well – offer to be the one who buys the condoms. Instead of leaving them in their boxes, put them in a pretty bowl next to your bed, or just slip a few loose ones into your purse if spending the night at his. Just think about it, how many boys do you know that actually stop to look at the packaging of condoms before they put it on? And if they do, they’re obviously beyond your help (or ours), but do write in, we’d love to hear your story! Durex has the ideal product called ‘Durex Close Fit’ so you can achieve that snugger fit.
Be sure that the timing’s right to talk about this delicate subject. The wrong time includes during foreplay, just before sex, just after sex, when his mates are round or when the footy’s on TV. You don’t want him to feel inadequate. Unless he actually comes right out and makes a comment you can respond to such as: ‘honey, do you think I’m too small?’, you are best to keep your mouth shut!