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You know when you haven’t been to the gym for a while and to get there is SUCH a huge effort, then at the end of the workout you realise how good it makes you feel.
Well, sex can sometimes be like that. You get stuck in a rut and don’t feel too much need to get out of it. But sex is great, it is an all over body work out, it feels good and brings you and your partner closer together.
So if you can’t remember the last time you had good sex, why not try one (or all) of these things...
1: A long kiss, with tongue and all
Remember when you first hooked up, how you’d spend like half an hour just kissing before someone was brave enough to make another move? Remember how hot it got you to kiss so passionately? Well try it, and I’ll almost guarantee it won’t just end with a hug.
2: An early night
You know how by the time you get to bed at night you're too tired to think about anything else that involves moving your body? Well aim to get to bed an hour before you usually would - you'll still get your full night's sleep, and after all that action you'll have a fabulous, deep sleep! Perfect!
3: A notepad and pen
Write down one thing each that you want the other person to do to you. This overcomes that barrier of sometimes being embarrassed to talk about kinky stuff! Swap notes and take turns to be the receiver and the giver.
4: Simple and easy
Guys love sex. And usually it is much more exciting for them when they don’t have to initiate it. So take the lead and make him know your wanting some. Spice it up a bit by putting a blindfold on him, then undressing him and tickling and licking him all over. Join in by being blindfolded as well and let your hands do the ‘talking and seeing’.
5: Go on holiday……hypothetically!
You know how you always seem to have so much more sex when you are away on holiday? Well for one night set the mood like you are on holiday. Order some nice dinner in, have a drink (or two) and turn the lights down low (or off!).
Want to celebrate a special occasion? Why not really surprise your partner by bringing in a fun little toy to play with. Go to www.d-vice.co.nz and choose something you have always wanted to try but haven’t been brave enough to do so. Trust me, it’ll be worth it!!
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and to get there is SUCH a huge effort, then at the end of the workout you realise how good it makes you feel. 
A long kiss, with tongue and all
A notepad and pen
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